New to stimming..Couple of issues..Is this normal?

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New to stimming..Couple of issues..Is this normal?

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Hey folks
New to the site and new to stimming
Currently using a tens unit but I have a Helix on the way
I've managed a few HFO's in the last few tries which is awesome but I have experienced a few things that slightly trouble me

HFO takes me about 90minutes(hoping this will come down with Helix)
Issue 1: Getting close to the big O I can get really trembly,my right arm especially
My finger tips can go numb and tingly and my hand can spasm/seize up sort of uncontrollably

Issue:2 After stimming for a long time(1 hour+) and HFO I feel weird afterwards,like spaced out
Almost like I'm high or something,this has caused me to have panic/anxiety(this feeling lasts about an hour)
I suffer from anxiety anyway but this post stimming feeling definitely worsens it

Anybody experienced anything similar?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
Thanks
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Bigchilli wrote: Tue Nov 10, 2020 11:00 pm HFO takes me about 90minutes(hoping this will come down with Helix)
Why? The pleasure is in the game so 90 mins is about right IMHO.
Bigchilli wrote: Tue Nov 10, 2020 11:00 pm Issue 1: Getting close to the big O I can get really trembly,my right arm especially
My finger tips can go numb and tingly and my hand can spasm/seize up sort of uncontrollably
I'd say that's normal. In fact it describes me to a tee. When I'm cumming my hands tremble and spasm so much I can't get to the power knobs :o
Bigchilli wrote: Tue Nov 10, 2020 11:00 pm Issue:2 After stimming for a long time(1 hour+) and HFO I feel weird afterwards,like spaced out
Almost like I'm high or something,this has caused me to have panic/anxiety(this feeling lasts about an hour)
I suffer from anxiety anyway but this post stimming feeling definitely worsens it
Yes, I suffered severe anxiety problems half a lifetime ago so I understand where you're coming from. Stimming can cause all sorts of psychological reactions, as can conventional sex. However conventional sex is generally over a lot quicker, whereas with estim we are pushing our genitals and sexual nerves into overdrive so you can expect some strange feelings during your learning curve. I still remember after my first estim-orgasm I cried like a baby. Stimming gives me a sexually ecstatic high better than any drugs, that's why I do it. If I feel a little spaced out afterwards I don't consider that a 'bad' thing.

There is such a thing as "Stim-Anxiety" where a new user is nervous about their estim equipment and the potential effects it might have on their body. No need to worry because this hobby is completely safe. The more you stim the more knowledge you will gain about yourself and your own sexuality, then you will fully relax into the experience until it becomes second nature.
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Thanks for the reply,very reassuring
I actually like the shaking bit ;) just wasn't sure if it was normal
Will work on the anxiety aspect
Now I know it's coming and normal hopefully it will ease
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I get Little tingles afterwards but go away nice to hear everyone else’s experiences when doing stim


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I think a lot of this is quite normal, and along the lines of what you'll experience, in greater depth, as you progress with your stim sessions.
I can go for a few hours now with actual no-ejaculation orgasms (multiple like many females can attest to) that rack the full body; shaking, trembling with waves of euphoria that elevate my consciousness into new levels (I'll often lose track of time for 15-20 minutes during intense orgasms); they leave me fully satisfied after each, yet fully horny and active to continue to the next one. Often times the ejaculatory orgasm at the end is a bit subdued and meditative; not saying it isn't as good, but different. These often are due to a combination of prostate stimulation along with the electrical stimulation.
I think getting over the timing and sensations of the "Standard" male orgasm/ejaculation are an awesome part of the estim journey...and progressing past your uncertainty of the next steps is a normal part of the process.
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Small success today using 2B for prostate stim. First some history. This post is for old guys like me, younger guys don’t have these issues so you may want to pass. While morning erections are a regular occurrence, erections for sex with my wife are no longer possible. Quite annoyed with the medical community which has perfected open heart surgery on beating hearts, but solve for ED? Nope not happening. Yet there are at least 70 million men in the northern hemisphere with ED. Ok enough whining.

Age 70, post minor heart attack three years ago. Meds include BP, a statin and a beta blocker. These are known to cause ED and that is what happened to me. Started using viagra at age 63 but now even that does not work, nor do injections.
Two years ago experimented with a simple inexpensive Tens device and a small stainless steel anal insert and a small diameter Hegar sound. Recall getting very erotic hip thrusts and thought ok if this is the future, not so bad. What I had then though did not realize it was a repeated mini dry orgasm. Very pleasant. Did not get that today but definite progress.
By the way, as a prelude to what happened today, had tried out Aneros Helix Syn, Aneros vibrating Vice and Nexus Revo Extreme. Pleasant but nothing felt on prostate. Mick at Estim systems advised that a 2B connected with metal anal insert such as the Moaner would have better results. He was right it did.
Equipment used today: a small diameter Hegar sound and a stainless steel anal trode, very slight bend, single pole, 100mm in length. Have an E-stim “moaner” and have used in the past but would not insert today. Both connected to Channel B on the 2B.

Plan was to also use a pad on perineum but it kept slipping because of lube leak at anal opening.

No orgasm today but very strong sensations to prostate for the FIRST time. Felt exactly like the “come hither” motion during prostate massage. The power setting that worked best: 60%. Also worked at 80% and curiously nothing at 100%. Best 2B program used was the “pulse” and “throb” also worked well.

Next time will try the Moaner as it has ports for 2 pole connections. Will also get the pad onto the perineum before anal lube applied.
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Very useful post, thanks rakedmast.

For severe ED it's perfectly possible to stim with a 'limp dick', or better still with a 'semi' using the methods outlined in this post:
** ERECTION Tips and Tricks - viewtopic.php?f=11&t=9956

The trick is to have everything ready to go so the current flows immediately the pump is removed. Once the juice is flowing it helps maintain a semi-hard erection.

rakedmast wrote: Mon Jul 19, 2021 12:07 am Plan was to also use a pad on perineum but it kept slipping because of lube leak at anal opening.
Apply the pad first, before lubing up, then try sitting on a rolled-up towel.
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Thanks stim addict, a good tip. I believe I have tried this previously but will redouble my efforts. However, at my age pushing semen out the front end of a penis does not hold as much interest as a prostate orgasm. Here's my thinking: The effect of a semen push is about 15 seconds max in my experience. On the other hand prostate orgasms are more intense and last for (depending on time and circumstance) a minute, 4 minutes or even longer. Many experienced prostate orgasm(ers) report on a scale of 1-10, a prostate orgasm is in a class of its own at 100 , or well off the conventional scale. My limited episode when first began with Estim showed me that while not volcanic nor earth moving the result was hip thrusting and multiple times. Having done it once albeit really at only the threshold of a prostate orgasm leads me to believe it is possible again especially now that I have really good equipment and more experience and direction from very experienced stimmers such as stimaddict and Mr.butt89 who are unstinting in their advisement.
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