I can't get HFO by e-stim

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I can't get HFO by e-stim

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Hi all.

I bought ElectroPebble a while ago and had tried many electrodes, placements.
It felt good for a while. then my cock went soft and feeling was just nice but not arouse to make my cock stays hard.
I've tried it at lease 1 hour.. nothing close to the point of no return.

Any helps and suggestions?

Thank you


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I’m new to Estim but having the same experience. I have a pebble but wish I had splashed out for the 2B.
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Hi, don't give up on the Pebble. I find it usually takes me about 90 min. You have to get the right mind set, relax and enjoy. I find that the HFO does not work for me if I try to force it, I find that suddenly I feel that building sensation starting and know it will happen, usually 4-5 min later and happens for me when limp.
I purchased my Pebble and 6 months later a 2B, I mostly use my Pebble and can achieve a HFO more often than when I use my 2B. I guess I should try to use my 2B more often but I like my Pebble for the simplicity and ease of use. If I had to give one up it probably would be the 2B.
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thank you.
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Hey. I'm brand new here and only recently after getting my first estim system. I got the coyote DG and I feel the same way as you. It's a very nice feeling and I'm enjoying it. But it doesn't seem arousing or anything like physical stimulation. This has been something I've been interested in for years and kinda feeling let down now :(
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It doesn't happen straight away, you need to work out the best position of pads etc that work for you. It took me a little while to get right. But when you do it's such fun.
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The ElectroPebble, I used to have one (well, technically, I do, but my submissive borrowed it, and she loves it). Like all control boxes, it takes time to get to know how to get the best out of it. There are no cookie-cutter solutions with e-stim as everyone experiences it differently.

It takes time and experimentation in terms of modes and electrode selection and placement to work out what works best for you. Experimentation is key, and I can't stress that enough.

Also, orgasms come from your brain, not your genitals, and e-stim allows you to stimulate yourself using your nerves. It can take a while for your brain to adjust to interpreting these new signals as pleasurable sexual activities that will build up an orgasm. Don't get put off if it takes time; I know people who came on their first session and others who took months to find out what works best for them. The common theme with all of them is that they are loving e-stim and can now reliably orgasm from it once they have gone through the teething stages.

I would advise keeping a stimming diary, not settings, electrodes, and placement with any relevant notes. That way, we can refine what works over time without revisiting things that didn't.

Don't chase the orgasm; enjoy the journey as much as the destination.

Set the scene and relax, by that, I mean if you watch porn when masturbating, then watch it while stimming. Just recreate as much of what you usually do when masturbating manually when you stim.

I hope you manage to find your sweet spot soon. Don't lose hope. You have a great e-stim control box that I highly recommend to others, as I know how good it can be. Happy stimming.
Just a woman in her 50s who likes e-stim and sticking things in her pussy while telling the world all about it on my review site. I'm quite normal, I think LOL. :?
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Recently registered and came across this thread. I've been experimenting with the Electro Pebble and waiting on the delivery of a 2B. If going soft is ruining the experience, try the E-Stim Systems Stairway to Heaven. With the exception of a sticky pad, it seems to be the most secure for those up and down moments.
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I think you mean joannes Reviews 'Stariway to Heaven'

One of many of Joanne's delightful creations which I can highly recommend as a very satisfied customer

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Set the scene and relax, by that, I mean if you watch porn when masturbating, then watch it while stimming. Just recreate as much of what you usually do when masturbating manually when you stim./quote]

Joanne's spot on! with this advice 8-)
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