I am on Vacation with a trailer in Arizona and still like to stim. I will wire up and sit at the table with my wife across from me while I play.
She has no idea about my E-Stim toys, at least if she does she never let on. It can be challenging at times to keep still and quiet while I play usually for an hour.
MMM thinking about it I might have to play again this morning.
Wondering if anyone else plays in secret in front of others.
Stimming in secret?
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Ronfire7
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VFRman
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Re: Stimming in secret?
That's bizarre! Your wife does not know, how is that possible? Where is the controller, what are you wearing? Not a squeak, shiver, moan out of you. What would you say to her? Sorry just a little sneeze. Oh that, I think I might be going down with something, (pardon the pun) Why don't you tell her? You never know she might be up for it.
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Re: Stimming in secret?
I find that bizarre too. I would never do that near a person I have a closer relation to, even not collegues, neighbors etc.
However, in summer I occasionally wear estim under my shorts during bicycle rides hidden to people on the way. The 2B however is not hidden but mounted to a belt. People usually do not notice that, otherwise could think it's a MP3 player, a mobile phone or something like that. If someone would ever identifiy it, why not ? Of course, for harder action, eventually with moans or certain movements, I need to dismount.
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Re: Stimming in secret?
Hi eck,
I am a keen cyclist (mainly when warm) & ride a light weight special sports bike. I wear very tight Lycra, that would make it just about impossible to attach any kind of electrode to my cock, balls, perineum whilst sitting on a slim hard saddle! Okay, I could wear loose baggy shorts, that might work, but the thought of stimming would have me riding in a crazy zigzag fashion down the road. I think I would soon fall off in a ditch! You are very adventurous.
I am a keen cyclist (mainly when warm) & ride a light weight special sports bike. I wear very tight Lycra, that would make it just about impossible to attach any kind of electrode to my cock, balls, perineum whilst sitting on a slim hard saddle! Okay, I could wear loose baggy shorts, that might work, but the thought of stimming would have me riding in a crazy zigzag fashion down the road. I think I would soon fall off in a ditch! You are very adventurous.
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Re: Stimming in secret?
Hey Ronfire,
I too stim in secret and the thrill of it really gets me off! My wife and I are in our 70's, she has lost all interest in sex, and using my 2B in secret while she sits in the kitchen doing jigsaw puzzles really adds something to the "cum". I wear loose fitting clothing with shirt tails hanging out to cover my wire and pocket.. I use a single channel with a custom cut pad on my corona and an 8mm 3-4" long CR loop in my ass so that it excites the prostate. I wire up in the bathroom, put the box on pulse at 2 speed and 60 power, place the box in my right pants pocket (side i sit against the LR sofa back), walk into the LR, stretch out, and enjoy the pulses. I then take my laptop or phone and call up Literotica or one of two 40 minute videos I like that really get me off while slowly dialing up the speed and power. Once I start getting close, I dial up speed and power on Continuous until BAM! Mission accomplished. I do this every 5-10 days.BTW with the box at my side, I can dial up A and Adjust without having to see the box. I usually do 5 increments at a time. I will wrap myself with a handkerchief using a heavy rubber band to hold it in place. This catches the squirts, keeps my pants clean, and makes for a fairly quick clean up. Once the hankie is dry you can "fluff it up, is odor free, and just like any other snot rag in the wash basket!
My wife has no idea that I'm doing this and wouldn't understand if she did. She once found me with my laptop and control box in hand during a session. She asked what I was doing and I said that I was testing something on the laptop. She was OK with my answer and went on her way. We've been married for almost 50 years, and we're happy1 Stimming in secret gives me the releases/statisfaction that I still require in a safe way. I don't sit in judgement of other people, and ask that they keep their own judgements to themselves. Whatever works is fine by me. Enjoy the thrills and thanks for raising this subject Ronfire. Maybe it will entice more folks to come out of the "closet" at some point. Happy Stimming to all!!!
I too stim in secret and the thrill of it really gets me off! My wife and I are in our 70's, she has lost all interest in sex, and using my 2B in secret while she sits in the kitchen doing jigsaw puzzles really adds something to the "cum". I wear loose fitting clothing with shirt tails hanging out to cover my wire and pocket.. I use a single channel with a custom cut pad on my corona and an 8mm 3-4" long CR loop in my ass so that it excites the prostate. I wire up in the bathroom, put the box on pulse at 2 speed and 60 power, place the box in my right pants pocket (side i sit against the LR sofa back), walk into the LR, stretch out, and enjoy the pulses. I then take my laptop or phone and call up Literotica or one of two 40 minute videos I like that really get me off while slowly dialing up the speed and power. Once I start getting close, I dial up speed and power on Continuous until BAM! Mission accomplished. I do this every 5-10 days.BTW with the box at my side, I can dial up A and Adjust without having to see the box. I usually do 5 increments at a time. I will wrap myself with a handkerchief using a heavy rubber band to hold it in place. This catches the squirts, keeps my pants clean, and makes for a fairly quick clean up. Once the hankie is dry you can "fluff it up, is odor free, and just like any other snot rag in the wash basket!
My wife has no idea that I'm doing this and wouldn't understand if she did. She once found me with my laptop and control box in hand during a session. She asked what I was doing and I said that I was testing something on the laptop. She was OK with my answer and went on her way. We've been married for almost 50 years, and we're happy1 Stimming in secret gives me the releases/statisfaction that I still require in a safe way. I don't sit in judgement of other people, and ask that they keep their own judgements to themselves. Whatever works is fine by me. Enjoy the thrills and thanks for raising this subject Ronfire. Maybe it will entice more folks to come out of the "closet" at some point. Happy Stimming to all!!!
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Re: Stimming in secret?
Hello, Ronfire,
45 years of marriage with the same wife, no secrets at all. I may practice estim when i want. She is not in for stimming, but knows where and when I am in action. She comes nearby and may see me stimming. Some days she asks me if I will stim that day. After a session she asks sometimes how it wents. Great relation.
45 years of marriage with the same wife, no secrets at all. I may practice estim when i want. She is not in for stimming, but knows where and when I am in action. She comes nearby and may see me stimming. Some days she asks me if I will stim that day. After a session she asks sometimes how it wents. Great relation.
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Re: Stimming in secret?
Hi Elder Buzz
Sound like you like to play the way I do. I have a 2B, a Pebble and now I just purchased the Coyote. I like the Coyote for the discreet stiming as I can place it in my pocket and control it from my phone. I still prefer my Pebble but it is harder to operate in my pocket.
Sound like you like to play the way I do. I have a 2B, a Pebble and now I just purchased the Coyote. I like the Coyote for the discreet stiming as I can place it in my pocket and control it from my phone. I still prefer my Pebble but it is harder to operate in my pocket.