The HFO journey
Posted: Mon Oct 23, 2023 3:46 pm
Hello All, looking for some input on this.
First off, I'm a male age 44'sh.
After really starting to log what "works" and doesn't work, how things feel etc while using it (Johanna's stim guide)
I've found that a warm up of assorted settings and porn, then move to a thrust setting and really play with the length / time.
Two bands around cock on a, and a moner using B channel.
Really adjusting strength between those two channels and "feeling" what is good, turning me on etc.
The mental aspect of this, damn near harder work than "real" sex lol!! It's NOT EASY to relax and turn the brain off and just enjoy!
But my question is, for those who have way more experience than me.. how do you define " This Works!"
On my last attempt, there was no real cum produced. I had what I would say a full body "Shudder" that I was able to get to slowly build up and then repeat.
Often felt in the pelvic area, but all over.. warm tingles. It isn't like a traditional orgasim at all, nor would I say it's "Better" or "Worse" just different.
Sometimes quickly, sometimes I could let the feeling last for 5 to 10 seconds and then try to build it up again.
Now I would say that's a HFO.. yes? Since I have no real frame of reference here, I'm going with yes.
(as a side note, a day or so later when I had normal sex with the wife, the amount of cum was damn impressive..)
I read thru some other posts on here, some folks that say it takes a far amount of time and yes indeed it did for me.
It was like a 1 hour warm up, and nearly 2 hours till I could get to the HFO part.
Looking back at it, some things I think I did "wrong" was not being horny enough. Seems like really that first hour is a porn watching warm up time.
Perhaps making sure I don't jerk off a few days before trying this again would help also. Maybe some supplements or some viagra?
I also really tried to find some good hypno / binaural type porn. Man I am wanting to go edit my own now, because good ones are hard as hell to find!
Another question / area of improvement.
I saw some other posts were it was mentioned that having to pee in the middle of a nice long stim session could be distracting.
Well I am kinda mixed on this. As I got to the HFO part of my session, it really started to feel like I had to pee.
I know some others mentioned that was the point were the HFO starts, so I didn't "stop" and go take a piss, had I done that.. I think it would have pretty much got me out of the zone.
So I had those HFO's (yes?) and once I was done (I think I was able to spend about an hour in the "HFO zone" I did in fact go piss and yea it was a lot.)
So now I wonder, bladder empty or full for a stim session?
Perhaps start empty, drink some water, have a 1 hour warm up, then move to HFO's, and try pissing while HFO's occur?
(Or just rather ignore if you have to pee, just go for HFO's and whatever comes out, comes out?")
I dunno?
Finally time line questions. From what I experienced, round trip it seems 3 hours is ideal or max.
1 hr warm up, 1 hr / 1.5 hfo's, and .5 ending / come down.
Does that jive with what you all experience, or should I try to adjust the "Warm up" or HFO times?
Can you spend more time in HFO zone, 2 or 4 hours? Should you even?
Well I won't make this to long.. but would love some feedback and advice here.
It's a adventure for sure and while those HFO's (if that's what I had indeed) are fun, man it's a LOT of work to get there!
First off, I'm a male age 44'sh.
After really starting to log what "works" and doesn't work, how things feel etc while using it (Johanna's stim guide)
I've found that a warm up of assorted settings and porn, then move to a thrust setting and really play with the length / time.
Two bands around cock on a, and a moner using B channel.
Really adjusting strength between those two channels and "feeling" what is good, turning me on etc.
The mental aspect of this, damn near harder work than "real" sex lol!! It's NOT EASY to relax and turn the brain off and just enjoy!
But my question is, for those who have way more experience than me.. how do you define " This Works!"
On my last attempt, there was no real cum produced. I had what I would say a full body "Shudder" that I was able to get to slowly build up and then repeat.
Often felt in the pelvic area, but all over.. warm tingles. It isn't like a traditional orgasim at all, nor would I say it's "Better" or "Worse" just different.
Sometimes quickly, sometimes I could let the feeling last for 5 to 10 seconds and then try to build it up again.
Now I would say that's a HFO.. yes? Since I have no real frame of reference here, I'm going with yes.
(as a side note, a day or so later when I had normal sex with the wife, the amount of cum was damn impressive..)
I read thru some other posts on here, some folks that say it takes a far amount of time and yes indeed it did for me.
It was like a 1 hour warm up, and nearly 2 hours till I could get to the HFO part.
Looking back at it, some things I think I did "wrong" was not being horny enough. Seems like really that first hour is a porn watching warm up time.
Perhaps making sure I don't jerk off a few days before trying this again would help also. Maybe some supplements or some viagra?
I also really tried to find some good hypno / binaural type porn. Man I am wanting to go edit my own now, because good ones are hard as hell to find!
Another question / area of improvement.
I saw some other posts were it was mentioned that having to pee in the middle of a nice long stim session could be distracting.
Well I am kinda mixed on this. As I got to the HFO part of my session, it really started to feel like I had to pee.
I know some others mentioned that was the point were the HFO starts, so I didn't "stop" and go take a piss, had I done that.. I think it would have pretty much got me out of the zone.
So I had those HFO's (yes?) and once I was done (I think I was able to spend about an hour in the "HFO zone" I did in fact go piss and yea it was a lot.)
So now I wonder, bladder empty or full for a stim session?
Perhaps start empty, drink some water, have a 1 hour warm up, then move to HFO's, and try pissing while HFO's occur?
(Or just rather ignore if you have to pee, just go for HFO's and whatever comes out, comes out?")
I dunno?
Finally time line questions. From what I experienced, round trip it seems 3 hours is ideal or max.
1 hr warm up, 1 hr / 1.5 hfo's, and .5 ending / come down.
Does that jive with what you all experience, or should I try to adjust the "Warm up" or HFO times?
Can you spend more time in HFO zone, 2 or 4 hours? Should you even?
Well I won't make this to long.. but would love some feedback and advice here.
It's a adventure for sure and while those HFO's (if that's what I had indeed) are fun, man it's a LOT of work to get there!